Tribute & Message From The Family
Tiffany Kristine Hoeck, age 45, passed away peacefully on Saturday, September 26, 2020, at Taylor House in Des Moines, Iowa after a courageous battle with cancer.
Tiffany was born on March 1, 1975 in Cherokee, Iowa to Vince Cox and Judee Cox. She graduated from North High School in Sioux City, Iowa and later graduated from Iowa State University on a full basketball scholarship.
It was at Iowa State where Tiffany met her husband, Joe, and the two were united in marriage on November 14, 1998 and welcomed two beautiful children Andrew Joseph (AJ) (age 14) and Ashley Kristine (age 9) who were Tiffany's entire world.
Tiffany is survived by her husband; two children; her father; her mother; and two brothers, Travis Cox and Wade Cox.
While Tiffany's fight against cancer was courageous and noteworthy it is not how Tiffany would want to be remembered. Tiffany was first an amazing wife. She single-handedly took a shy farm boy from NE Iowa and taught him how to love and live life to the fullest. Secondly, Tiff was an outstanding mother and cornerstone of our family. Tiffany has instilled many traits that live on in our children. AJ is fiercely competitive but also companionate, both traits Tiffany exhibited on a daily basis. Ashley's flair for the dramatic and big heart which welcomes anyone she comes in contact with are traits we also loved about Tiffany. Finally, Tiffany was an incredible friend. Whether it was celebrating a Cyclone victory at an ISU tailgate, showing off her killer dance moves while singing karaoke, or simply sitting down over dinner and drinks, Tiffany went out of her way to make everyone feel welcomed and ensured every event was memorable. We should feel blessed we had the opportunity to spend time with such a wonderful woman and her memory lives on in all of us.
Family and friends are invited to attend visitation services from 5-7 PM on Tuesday, September 29, 2020 at Ankeny Memorial Funeral Home (4208 North Ankeny Blvd). The funeral service is scheduled for 10:30 AM on Wednesday, September 30 at Ankeny First United Methodist Church (206 SW Walnut Street).
Due to COVID restrictions and limited capacity at the church, it is encouraged to view the service via livestream: https://boxcast.tv/view/memorial-service---tiffany-hoeck-359162
The livestream will not go live until 10:25 a.m.
Condolence & Memory Journal
Joe - I learned of Tiffany's illness and passing just today from a business associate who's wife attended the same high school with Tiffany. I am shocked and extremely saddened by this news. Though we fell out of touch over the years since Smithway you both have crossed my mind, especially since we just moved to Ankeny from East Village.
I wish to say how deeply saddened I am by this news but I also wish to say what great memories I have of working alongside of Tiffany at SMX for a number of years as well as spending time with both of you at various social gatherings in Fort Dodge.
Tiffany could always light up a room because she was always smiling and her attitude towards both work and life was infectious. She brought hard work, humor, diligence, toughness and tenacity to the work place and the play place. I remember when AJ was born and how proud she was and the many funny stories of his early childhood.
I can only say again how saddened I am and that I wish you and your entire family the best Joe.
Posted by
Tim Averill - Ankeny, IA - Friend October 07, 2020
Joe and family, you are in my thoughts and my prayers during this time. Your description of Tiffany and her life paints a picture of a wonderful woman and legacy that lives on through her family. I am so very sorry for your loss. God Bless you all.
Posted by
Rick Radliff - Johnston, IA - Coworker October 06, 2020
Joe and family-
My heart broke reading about the loss of Tiffany. I know Joe through work and never met her, but can imagine the wonderful person she was. My deepest sympathy to you all.
Posted by
Les Kuhlman October 02, 2020
The years seem to fly by. Being freshmen at ISU grappling to balance the whirlwind of basketball, school and fun feels near when it crosses my mind. Tiff and Tracy were inseparable. Eventually it was Tiff, Joe and Tracy-always together. I'm glad we were able to connect via social media to witness our families grow. Her strong presence and fun nature will be missed for sure. Joe and family, may God comfort you and bring you peace.
-- Alecia (Lee) Kates
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Alecia Kates - Friend October 01, 2020
My deepest sympathy to all.
God Bless...
Posted by
Kelly Neustrom September 30, 2020
Joe, AJ, Ashley, Judee and Family- Our deepest sympathy to you all for the loss of such a beautiful soul. We enjoyed getting to know your family when we were neighbors. The driveway drinks were an added bonus! Please know that we hold you close in thought and prayer during this difficult time.
The Hughes'
Tory & Tonya
Kylah, Kailan, Kendrie & Keegan
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Tonya Hughes - Ankeny, IA September 30, 2020
Our deepest condolences to Joe, AJ, Ashley and your entire family. Tiffany was always such a great person to be around. I loved swapping stories about our sons and their group of friends from elementary school to junior high. I'm so grateful for her friendship over the years and her positive approach to life. We will miss her, but she lives on in her beautiful family. Love and prayers for comfort now and in the difficult time ahead
Posted by
Chrys Woods - Friend September 30, 2020
Tiffany enriched all our lives, and she will be missed immensely. Thoughts and prayers for her family. We are thinking about all of you!
Posted by
Heather Fitzgerald - Bentonville, AR - Coworker September 30, 2020
Our deepest condolences, Joe. Prayers of comfort for you, the kids and your families in the coming days, weeks and months. Tiffany was a joy to be around and her energy and smile were contagious.
Posted by
Jolie and BJ Fuhrman - Johnston, IA September 30, 2020
Joe and family
I'm so sorry to about Tiffany. I'm praying for you and your family. God be with you. Joyce Geistkemper
Posted by
Joyce Geistkemper - FAYETTE, IA - Family Friend September 29, 2020
So very sorry for your loss. Tiffany was special! d
Posted by
Chuck and Ginny Dickens September 29, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted by
Mark Caputo September 29, 2020
Deepest sympathies to all her family& friends! Tiff you will be missed dearly. Fly High Angel.
Posted by
Melani Sorgdrager Vedral - Sioux City, IA - Classmate September 29, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with Joe, AJ, Ashley and family. We will miss hearing Tiffany's excitement on the basketball court watching our boys play (it always made me smile!). She will still be there in spirit and we will cheer extra loud on her behalf - she was a great friend and mom and we will miss her.
Love, the Pedersons
Posted by
Sara and Todd Pederson - Ankeny, IA - Friend September 29, 2020
Many of us will miss Tiffany a great deal. I am so thankful that I had the privilege of knowing her and working under her. She was always had an open door and a laugh to share. I always enjoyed hearing her share stories of her family and it was clear how much they meant to her. Professionally, I always knew she was in my corner and had my back. She made many of us feel more like a friend than a co-worker. Will be praying for her family through this difficult time.
Posted by
Frank Pribyl - Des Moines, IA - Coworker September 29, 2020
My fondest memories of Tiffany from our time working together at Smithway Motor Xpress are related to her competitiveness, leadership, and her smile. She was instrumental in rebuilding the Smithway brand through her relationships with our customers, drivers, and associates. You all have my deepest convalescences.
Posted by
Frank Gambish - Seattle, WA - Coworker September 29, 2020
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for all of your family.
Posted by
Sally and Lorman Vilhauer September 29, 2020
I was impressed watching how Tiffany could push for excellent results and at the same time, remain steadfastly positive. She was a leader and an influencer for sure and will be greatly missed. It was clear that she cherished her family and was so very proud of them. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope that even as you are grieving, your heart and mind is filled with hope and peace.
Posted by
Stacey Sickmiller - Des Moines, IA - Coworker September 29, 2020
Vince, Judee, and family. We are so very sorry for your loss, and pray for your family.
Posted by
Terry and Linda Christensen - Hinton, IA - Friend September 29, 2020
My condolences to you Tiffany, R.I.P.
Posted by
Vernon williams - Douglasville, GA - Coworker September 28, 2020
I didn't know Tiffany very well. I met her a few times in the hallway but on the few occasions that I did she brightened my day with a very big smile and a very nice "Hello!". I will keep her friends and family in my prayers! I can tell she will be missed by many people.
Posted by
Rob Smith - Des Moines, IA - Coworker September 28, 2020
It has been awhile since I have seen Tiffany. She was always kind, fun and had the best smile. Thoughts and prayers to her family and friends.
Posted by
Jessica Lindell Meinen - Akron, IA September 28, 2020
My thought sand prayers go out to her family in this difficult time. Tiffany had such a joyful positive spirit about her that I deeply admired. She made the office ring with laughter each and every day and will be dearly missed by all.
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Kim Schwartzman - Des Moines, IA - Coworker September 28, 2020
Tiff was an amazing woman who will live on in Joe, AJ, and Ashley.
Kerry and I offer or most sincerest thoughts to all of you as you grieve the loss of a terrific person. Love to you all.
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Carla Taylor - Ankeny, IA - Family Friend September 28, 2020
I am so sorry to hear of Tiffanys passing. I first met Tiffany when she started at CRST in Cedar Rapids back around 1997. Then she moved down to Des Moines at TMC in 1998 and then I started there in January of 1999. Tiffany was always positive....upbeat....always smiling....and loved her Cyclones. I will miss the "Good Morning Dave" shout out in the hallways at work when I would see her. I know she is in a better place now with our Lord and Savior. God Bless
Posted by
Dave Kroeger - Urbandale, IA - Coworker September 28, 2020
Very few people truly fit this definition, but Tiffany Hoeck was an inspiration. I draw peace from knowing her not only as a coworker, but a friend.
Posted by
Mark Sickmiller - Bondurant, IA - Coworker September 28, 2020
My deepest condolences go out to Tiffany's family. She was always such a light at the office, that I cannot image the grief those closest to her must feel. I can still hear her infectious laugh, and will forever cherish the memories I have with Tiffany. A beautiful person inside and out. The world is a darker place without her in it. Thinking of her family and friends through this difficult time.
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Kamie VanOtterloo - Coworker September 28, 2020
I sat right across from Tiffany back in 98 and we had a lot of great laughs. Over the years, I worked with her on several projects and I can't recall her ever being in a sour mood. She was always upbeat and willing to help you with whatever you needed. The world lost a good soul.
Posted by
Michael Eddy - Des Moines, IA - Coworker September 28, 2020
So sorry for for your loss.
Posted by
Travis Schonrock - Classmate September 28, 2020
This is so heart breaking, truly a great loss to this world. My deepest condolences for the loss of such a wonderful person. She will be missed ;(
Posted by
Lisa Zautner - Oregon, OH - Coworker September 28, 2020
Tiffany was a good person always happy and always was upbeat. She always kept positive even when it’s negative. .
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Mark muerner - Coworker September 27, 2020